Real love is never followed by mental torture of the ego. Love can’t lose as it doesn’t have a target to own. Suffering is not a symptom of love and love doesn’t require ownership. If there is love, you don’t need another person to possess, you just admire them, as you admire a flower, the sun or the sky. It’s already good enough that they exist. Dependence on the person is just infatuation –when you don’t see the person you miss them and are suffering – when you do see the person you are jealous and suffering… Real love gives energy, but infatuation – takes and sucks it out.

When there is a passion you think: “I can’t leave without him/her even a day!” But that’s not real love, it’s just passion! Passion – is delight from possession (like to the drugs, cards, alcohol…) Love – it’s a quiet and serious feeling. If infatuation can’t wait to gain the subject of adoration and own it, love – wishes to give it away and help. It doesn’t require the rights of ownership. You are just fine because this person exists! You respect his/her mental world; feel their heart, like your own. You live inside them, like they inside you, you have the same breath and naturally merge together, that’s why you get QUIET. You can give to your love all the world and require nothing in return. In the case of true love, the energy of conception, cleanses the karma and the child coming happily into life. True love bears genius kids.

Save the treasure of love:
In any harmonic relationship, the love will especially attract the big aggression of “Darkness”. Forces of chaos will never let the lovers sleep quietly. Chaos will try to interfere with the relationship all the time and test the durability of love. Like any bad energy, chaos inspires some negative feelings, and people even start to believe in them. This will lead to offences and follow with: “We are strangers to each other, can’t even understand each other anymore”. And all the best moments of their relationship are absolutely forgotten, like they never happened. But they DID have those moments before!!! In such a situation the lovers (just recently) forgot everything good from the past as if their memory has been affected by a great influence. The person enters the state similar to schizophrenia in regard to their private life. In other fields of activity – they stay normal. Schizophrenia – is missing orientation in reality, but living life in fantasy and delusions (in private relations). As soon as this schizoid state passes, the person becomes normal again. It’s important tokeep the relationship correct and fair. Only the strong person can put everything in its correct place and doesn’t wait for somebody to do it for them. It is possible that the human finds their true love, but the brutal essence of infatuation drowns them in a new round of tortures of passions and they follow mirages.

To hurt someone close to you means to hurt yourself.
Any love could hardly bear offences patiently forever. Eventually the flame of love and happiness will burn out because of the hot fire of deep wounds. Every quarrel the wicked [evil] one put in power will be directed to the relationship’s demise.

Unfaithfulness – is treachery and betrayal!
It is possible under strong hypnosis. In this case, the person can’t differentiate their own feelings from those they are given under hypnosis. They are struggling and need help. It’s important to know how the infidelity happened; as a betrayal, a mistake or under hypnoses… Most people are naïve in believing that everything happens by itself. But that is wrong! Nothing in life can happen by itself. Harmony in family needs huge efforts. You can never have harmony without effort. Everything must be earned through hard work. In life people can get very mixed up. A lot of wisdom and life experience is needed to understand and separate the truth from delusion.